"If your good friend is having an affair, will you say him/her off ah?"
I raised an eyebrow. Pondered for 5 seconds.
"It depends...on how close our friendship is.....and how deep he is in(Of coz I mean the affair wise)"
Mr Men-Sao sighed.
"SelfieKing huh?"
Mr Men-Sao: ya.......
"With that PRC nightclub 吊花 girl？"
Mr Men-Sao: Ya lo.......
Seriously, at our age, I guess you're bound to hear of such stuff now and then, going on in some families. Some families live with it(the fact of the hubby having a Xiao 3, a.k.a mistress) while some ended in divorce.
To continue with my reply.....I said;
I guess at the initial stage, I probably wont say much. I guess guys flirt around abit after drinks or 逢场作戏 is pretty common. But of course if I feel it's getting slightly too frequent and serious than it should, I will probably comment things like, "别玩出火。" And when it finally gets serious, and yep if he or she is my good friend, I will start nagging things like "Are you out of your mind, have you thought about your kids and such?"
I'm not very close with SelfieKing, at least not that close that I will want to meddle with his affair.
I just feel sorry for his wife and kids. From what I heard, he is prepared to divorce IF his wife wants it. And actually his wife already roughly know his affair(Sg is very very small lor) and they already quarreled over it. And his last words are "So what you want now? Divorce? You sure? Ok fine go ahead." The poor wife was stunned her "divorce-threat" didnt work at all. And backed down(she is financially dependent on him).....and he knew....he won.....
I'm....just....wondering......wondering what's the magic of such PRC girls that make Sg guys want to throw away their family for them. And they are happily doing so, knowing very well they are wrecking families and making kids lose their fathers/mothers.
It's not the first time I heard of such home-wrecking stories. And they're mostly PRC.
And SelfieKing brought along another mutual friend, XPG to the same club to drink, as well as to support his girlfriend, (aka the Xiao 3). Alas, XPF tio hooked and now frequent the club to support another PRC girl who had besotted him. He spent around $10k every month to support her by way of 吊花。I'm pretty sure his income is not even half. Already past 3 months. And yes he is married as well.
And he haven even gotten as close to kissing. （Ultra stupid right, at least must F mah)
Many of the guys, including SelfieKing had tried to persuade him against spending the exorbitant amount.
And he said, "她和别人不一样！她不是看我的钱的！"
I told my hubby, "If ONE DAY, you come to me and told me you fell in love with another Sg girl and wants a divorce. I will have nothing to say but to let you go (and probably wish you well if you give me a huge alimony, just kidding haha). BUT if you 他妈的 hooked up with a PRC bitch and tell me "她和别人不一样，她不是看我的钱的"，I will slap you so hard that your eyeballs drop out. I smiled sweetly.
His answer, seems sensible at that timing, "这种不是看钱 then 看什么？明知道她是为钱，怎么可能还会喜欢她？"
I said, that I dont know lo, suddenly you one day also become like XPG so besotted and say this thing. You know, the funny thing is, my gf's ex-bf once zao-sai(had another gf while he was attached) with a PRC girl as well and he said EXACTLY THE SAME THING, aka, 她和别人一样，她不是看我的钱的!
SO I TELL YOU,
The MOMENT your guy tells you this CLASSIC phrase about a particular PRC girl which he just gotta know or whatever;
她和别人一样 OR/AND 她不是看我的钱的
Please grab a baseball bat and beat the crap out of him.
Because he's a goner.
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