She don't understand

Seconds ago, I was logged in to my usual blog and wanted to blog an entry. But I stood staring at it, typing and deleting as I just couldn't trust typing an entry that wouldn't be offensive to any friends who may read it.

End up it's just impossible. And duhz...it's sure a chore to blog an entry with SO MUCH CARE for fear of causing any ill feelings or hurting anyone. I mean, typing wise, I still can re-read umpteen times and edit before posting. So I always try to be careful. However sometimes, in real life, my words are out before I can stop it.

SO

I always don't understand why there are so many people dropping offensive and negative comments all over other peoples' posts or in whatsapp

Didn't their parents taught, "If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything."

Anyway, I probably shouldn't care less about these people; just can't help feeling curious about their upbringing.

Let's talk about friends around us.

Do you have those irritating kind of friends around in your mutual circle whom you super buay tahan but yet have been silently enduring their presence and the things they say.

While I may be super direct and cutting to the point here, I'm actually very soft towards my friends. It became a habit. And sometimes I really wonder is it worth it to be "that nice" to them when they ain't that nice at all.

My hub had always told me just avoid some of them but I told him it's difficult because most are mutual friends where we meet in groups. It's quite hard to avoid unless you avoid the whole group together. And actually, most are nice except 1 or 2.

I was super attitude and carefree when I was younger; in my teens. I think I was happier then despite earning much lesser. If I didn't like what a friend was saying, I will immediately refute back(I don't shout though). But now I merely just smiled and don't reply. Or else I will just settle very amicably with a neutral comment.

But, why some people just don't get it.
Just don't get it.

Perhaps because everyone around them is as nice as me, just giving them their way instead of pointing what they said aren't true everytime. Or what they said aren't appropriate at all.

I guess my temper has improved tremendously over the years. Haha.

Sigh.....but I really wonder when I will burst. I really almost did a few days ago.


My dog is sick. She actually needs a surgery. You can imagine I was pretty worried about it. So in our group chat, I was discussing with another friend about it since she had a dog...sigh... And she was sharing her insights as well as how/why her dog died 1-day post-op. As much as we didn't get overly emo in the chat....trying to sound sensible and logical discussing the merits of letting our precious going through an operation, it's obvious that HELLO we're kinda emotional on this topic as her dog had died and my dog can DIE on the surgery table because she's not young anymore.

Throughout the lengthy chat, this mutual girlfriend of mine(let's call her B) actually didn't comment at all. Which I'm glad. Because nothing good ever come out from her mouth; either she's being sarcastic or snide, or she's belittling you for being dumb because she always assumes you can't comprehend her "higher teachings". She didn't know how many times I've internally rolled my eyes at her sharing of "knowledge".

And really, she finally commented something after all the group convo.


"It's all part of aging".



Mother-f--------

*Take a deep breath*


As usual, that irritating, snide attitude for every topic, and I can almost imagine her face and expression while saying it. "You know, it's common," that kind of of tone and attitude.

If I didn't care about this friendship, I would have said right to her face, "Yes b*tch, I know it's all part of aging and please say something I don't know because it really doesn't help much here when I'm worrying that my dog dies!"

I probably shouldn't expect that much from a un-emotional person who prefer to let her dad decompose without an intact face and deprive him to have a last look at all his loved ones who had came to visit him at his funeral BECAUSE she wanted to save a mere S$1000 jab.

And what, she's spending so much money doing eyelid surgery, threadlifts, botox, fillers and monthly beauty treatments that costs over S$1000 every month on herself. But of course, she is so desperate to have someone take her because while all of us are married, she is the only one single and nearing 40s.
I'm so sorry, I have nothing against singles at all but really simply bth her.

I'm really so tired. So tired of listening to her sharing how "successful" she is, how much her boss likes her, how much her colleagues dislike her because they are jealous of her, how many suitors etc.
Can't forget how she snidely remarked her loggerhead is very stupid for crossing her paths because she is her boss's pet. Zzz "So what if I'm late, my boss likes me what".

Will she ever understand people dislike her is NOT because they are jealous and her, and seriously, what's there to be jealous of her? Only we close friends will know, her private properly is her mum who paid the down payment and monthly installment shared equally with her sis(but she has the master room). But she told everyone she owned the private property solely. As for the car she's driving, where she said it's drawing green eyes from her colleagues, everytime I feel like telling her "Why not just admit to them it's just a 2nd hand car which left only 1 year? They will never be "jealous" of you and black-mouth you then." But of course, I know she won't.

This egoistic lady, insists on driving a conti car even when she can't afford so every year she buys those which left 1 year or 6months. Yup, so she changed car every year. Damn free loh, keep do the car insurance and all those buy/sell thingy. Seriously, have you ever seen a lady who loves bragging so much with false pretenses? I think next year she will change to a Porsche liao, albeit one which left 1 year maybe.

When will she ever understand, with such an ugly heart and a shrewd mouth, no matter how pretty, no man will ever want her. But no, I still don't feel she's pretty. I may be biased though. =)