Toxic people

Sometimes I feel so exasperated by the kinds of people I meet. Even my friends feel very amazed - by the high % of XXX I meet in my lifetime. Due to quite a few reasons, we felt that it's more economical and effort/time saving to send our dirty laundry to laundry service. Sometimes we both go together, sometimes we take turns to go alone if we need to run some other errands. The one tending the laundry is basically a lady who is probably few years older than me(but of coz she looked much older) and she is usually just very formal with me when I go alone. Whereas everytime Bii will relate some convo she always exchange with him in a friendly way. Of course it's not surprising as he is usually very popular with ladies. The funny part is about the questions she always try to ask him. "Your house's washing machine spoilt ah", "Why never wash yourself". So Bii felt very amused because firstly, she don't need to know. Secondly, in Bii's words, "Where got ppl always ask this kinda questions one? It's like, you sell vegetable rice then you keep asking people, eh why you don wan to cook yourself". Ridiculous right. 

Then some time back, Bii came back to the car after passing her the laundry and told me amusingly, "Somehow huh, you can always evoke your same sex into buay-song you, by doing exactly nothing. HAHAHA!" I asked, "What is it this time?" Laughingly, he told me, he went alone just now and the lady finally asked, 

"The lady who sometimes come with you, she's your wife right?".

"Ya"

"Woah, so she no need to do laundry one ah"

"Ya"

"She very good life lehhhh" *sarcastic tone*

Bii related all these to me, laughing again. Zzz

Okie, after like 2 weeks, this time, it's me who went alone. As it was CNY, I cheerfully called out to her "Hello! Happy CNY!", to which she totally ignored me and only took my laundry. She didnt even look at me siah, eyes all the way on my laundry bag. Total silence. Zzz. 

Sigh, seriously. AUNTIE, it's not my fault that you gotta wash my laundry leh. And it's not my fault for having...my life?? I do admit I have a comfy life now, a great partner, great friends etc, but but, I've always been more than courteous to her, because I have a bubbly personality coz she has been doing our laundry for a period already. *Take a deep breath* Woah, seriously....bitter strangers who are simply unhappy with their lives....and jealous of other's, are simply scary shit. It's like, they just get unhappy with you for no valid reasons. Haiz...I had female friends like her before, but had ditched these toxic friends. From what I hear(somehow info have a way of travelling into my ears even when idc), their lives has gone from bad to worse. 

TO this group of Ladies, stop blaming other people for YOUR life. Stop feeling bitter, start feeling positive with a BIGGER heart so that you can allow happy things to happen(to you or to other ppl). If you always talk shit, your life will be shit. Because shit attracts shit! If you keep sharing happy things, keep feeling happy, your life will be happy because that's the law of attraction. Sometimes life may not be easy, keep a big heart, be able to feel happy for people. Good things will come your way. 

Last time I always pity this kinda people coz I feel they are like that just because their life is SAD. BUT NO, not anymore, these people totally don't deserve my empathy at all! Because they probably deserve their life from their attitude towards people. Humph!